The Deaths of William Frawley and Vivian Vance
July 26, 1909 – August 17, 1979
“If I let my hair go like that you’d neverlet me hear the end of it.”
February 26, 1887 – March 3, 1966
“Honeybunch, if the rest of you looked like that Iwouldn’t care if you were bald.”
On screen, their chemistry as Fred and Ethel Mertz was fantastic. Off screen, theycouldn’t bear each other.Trading insults constantly. I think it’s partly what drove Vivian to mental illness. That and working for Lucy.Lucy’s”professionalism” is legendary, and you only have to look at her two kids, to see there was some seriousdamage done. Lucy and Vivian were very good friends for the most part, but their relationship had its ups and downs. Iremember one story I read somewhere that while Lucy was pregnant, she tookVivian’s dressing room, which was closerto the stage. Lucy also had people helping her with costume changes. Meanwhile, Vivian had to crawl across props andcables, change by herself, and get back to the stage. One time, she missed her cue. “You’re late,” saidLucy. “I’d tell you to go fuck yourself, but Desi’s already done that,” was apparently her response.
Both Frawley and Vance were veterans of the stage by the time they were cast in their roles as theRicardo’slandlords.
After I Love Lucy went off the air, Frawley continued to work quite a bit, landing a role in the FredMcMurray show My Three Sons, as Bub the housekeeper. He lived in abuilding on Rossmore,
almost next door to Mae West, called the El Royale. Here is thefrontentrance.
On March 3rd, 1966, Frawley went to see a film with his “male nurse.”Don’t really know why heneeded a male nurse to go with him to the movies, but there you go. As best as Ican figure, he saw “Inside Daisy Clover“. They were walking down Hollywood Boulevard, whenFred hit the pavement, just on this corner.
The nurse carried Frawley tothe lobby of the Knickerbocker Hotel,
where attempts to resuscitate him,failed. Frawley’s body was DOA at the Hollywood Receiving Hospital, on nearby Wilcox. The hospital is now gone, andthe Hollywood Police Station is in its place. Frawley was 79 years old. William Demerest, as Uncle Charlie, replaced himon My Three Sons.
Interesting fact discovered by Mark Langlois: Though associated with Al Jolson, who performed the song very successfully, “My Mammy” was performed first by William Frawley as a vaudeville-style act during 1918. Jolson heard the song and performed it for the Broadway show Sinbad. Jolson recorded this song twice and performed it in his 3 films : The Jazz Singer (1927), The Singing Fool (1928) and Rose of Washington Square (1939). The group, The Happenings, revived the song during 1967 with a recording that scored the top 20.
September 2002, Findadeath.com friendE.J. Fleming addsthis: Interesting coincidence. When he died he was indeed livingover on Rossmore, but for 30+ years prior to that, he had shared a largeapartment with his sister at the Knickerbocker. When he had his fatalheart attack, he happened to be walking in front of the Knickerbocker. They carried him in to the lobby, where he died on a couch. He had livedon Rossmore for only a few months when he died. Went ‘home’ to die itseems.
Upon hearing of his death, Desi Arnaz took out a full page ad in the Hollywood Reporter, that said, “BuenosNoches, Amigo!” Lucy herself issued a statement, “I’ve lost one of my dearest friends and show business haslost one of the greatest character actors of all time. Those of us who knew him and loved him will miss him.” Idoubt this is true, but Vivian Vance was credited as saying, “Champagne for everyone!” when she heard thenews.
He was buried 5 days later, in the San Fernando Mission Cemetery.
Trivia: Frawley was a drunk. Apparently Desi Arnaz knew this, and had it added in his contract that if he ever showedup drunk, he would be terminated immediately. It was also in Frawley’s contract that he be let go to attend baseballgames.
Findadeath.com friend Dave H. clarifies:
You are correct in that Mr. Frawley was a drunk. Then again, so was Desi, among other things. The contract stipulations you refer to were: Should drinking ever have an “adverse” effect on production, Mr. Frawley faced possible termination of employment. 2nd, his contract did stipulate time off for baseball games, however, the only games this applied to were The Yankees; more specific, if they made the World Series.
More: Lucy apparently wanted Gale Gordon for the part, but he was unavailable.
Vivian Vance was almost thirty years younger than Frawley. She originally thought that William was being cast as herfather, not her husband. The Mertzs were only going to be incidental characters, but much toLucy’s annoyance, theygained popularity and were made into full-fledged regulars. I don’t know if this is true, but there are those who saythat Lucy stipulated in her contract, that Vivian remain 20 pounds overweight.
After I Love Lucy, Vivian continued to work, and was asked back to do more Lucy incarnations.Eventually she retired to Belvedere, California, where she worked on raising awareness for mental illness. Viviansuffered from depression, and had several nervous breakdowns in her life.
My buddy Steve Smith was kind enough to go out of his way and snap some pictures of the house Vivian died in. It wason Beach Road.
Here is the front and her mailbox.
Thanks so much, Steve. You can actually seewhere Lucy probably threw a cigarette out, before visiting ol Viv.
By1979, Vance had suffered a stroke, and was in failing health. Mary Wickes, a close friend of Vivian andLucy’s,was in a play in the area. She and Lucy visited Vivian one last time, in the summer of 1979. They got on like the goodtimes in the old days. On their way back, Mary Wickes said she and Lucy cried the entire way.
On August 17th, Vivian passed away. She had bone cancer. She was 64 years old.
She was cremated, and scattered in the ocean.
Trivia: Just one. A Lucy bit I found terrific, in a book called Desilu: The Story of Lucille Ball and DesiArnaz, by Coyne Steven Sanders and Tom Gilbert.
Kay Ballard talks about a trip to Palm Springs to visit Lucy: “Lucy and I were riding bikes when a dog came outof the woods, foaming at the mouth. She just looked at the dog and yelled, “GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE!”The dog ran back into the woods. I turned to her and said, “That is why you are queen of the world and I amnothing.”